Although I can easily agree with what you're saying friend, I'd be lying if I said I agree about trying to redefine all these ridiculous pronouns that should have never had so much power behind them in the first place. But the fact of the matter is, we now have them, and it gets confusing as hell, trying to unlearn, relearn, and rephrase what you say and how you address people. I don't have a solution, but I also don't like the one that's been suggested. Yet that has nothing to do with how I feel about the person in general. Thanks for sharing :-)