"At this stage in life, everyone has a bit of baggage. Whether it’s divorces, grown children, or a bum knee, your baggage is part of your story." I totally agree Joy, but my problem is "over sharing". I'm so comfortable with myself, that I'm an open book. I tend to tell more than what is necessary, or maybe just too soon. For instance, I got full dentures this year, and I felt comfortable enough to write a 5-part series https://medium.com/p/9546387864fd and I'm just as open to talk about it in person. I no longer feel the need to be what others want or need me to be - on a date, or in my life in general. I'm love being older. It has it's perks in lots of ways, like finally understanding who you are. Thanks :-)