"but a comment that makes you scroll down can be too much to handle and hard to answer. " I'm afraid I'm guilty of some things, but regardless, my comments are always genuine - though long. Whatever your response, it should be relevant to the story. Relatable shared experiences and even mentions of similar stories shouldn't automatically be frowned on. Who can resist noting when they just wrote or just read something similar? And truthfully, I comment to share my feedback, and while it's nice to get one, I don't expect a reply. Great topic Bella. :-)