"Getting older is a sobering and often frightening prospect. " So much to deal with, so much to worry about, so much to keep us backed against the rails these days, especially now that the election is over and the unthinkable has happened. But you're right about us women Sherry baby - and one way or another, you are going to do what you always do, being the tough old broad you are. You're going to get through this mortgage crap and everything else you're dealing with, and you're going to be all the better for it in the end. Fight it and don't buckle, because that's what they rarely expect us old timers to do. Sometimes you even get the win, just because they can believe your audacity to stand up to them. So by all means, keep us in the loop friend, and let us know how it all turns out. Love ya :-)