Hey Diana, great topic. I finally came to the conclusion that it's not my responsibility to take care of everyone else's health, especially to the detriment of my own. That was a hard lesson to learn, after being a caregiver to my older sister for so many years. Now, she's in a nursing facility, and whenever I go every week to visit and drop off her requests, she always reminds me to take care of myself. She says: "If you don't take care of yourself, who's going to be around to take care of me?" She's thoughtful that way :-)