Hey Margaret, don't feel bad; I'm a sucker for click bait too. I don't know why, but I keep hoping it's really going to be some legitimate info, but... Anyway, I totally get what you're saying, and I'm also learning to properly navigate Medium, but I've been writing online for year. Please check out my "WOW" Justtiss Goode story (just stands for writing on writing), and you'll find a lot of helpful stuff - all writing related. Feel free to reach out if you'd like to talk in real time. I'm game. Thanks for your honesty :-)