" I can’t remember a lot of the things I did that must have scarred my children to make them behave the way they sometimes do as adults." Great story Klara. I've felt this same way, wondering where I could have possibly went wrong with things, after trying so desperately not to make any of my own mother's mistakes - which I didn't. But I guess it didn't matter in the long run, because I made enough of my own. Oh well, what are you gonna do???