I get it Elizabeth. That's been your experience, but not mine, and not necessarily a lot of people who have made the decision to join and support the program. Clearly something works about it, or so many people wouldn't be joining, and lots of them touting their success. Personally, I support who supports me, and who I notice supporting others. If it turns out they're FOM, cool, if not, that's cool too. I'm easy peasy baby :-)