"I guess it’s a process to understand that parents make mistakes, that they don’t know things, that they can’t deal with certain stuff. Just like everyone else." Awesome point Broni and great story you've shared. It's cool you realize they simply don't get it, and at this late date, they probably never will. But it's not being selfish, trying to find a way to be okay with them clearly not being okay. I truly admire your bravery. KUDOS BABY!