"If you can relate to the above then you know or have felt the power of silence." Oh my dear Mr. Landers, how right you are! I've experienced this very thing, time and time again, in very aspect of my life, with me on both sides of the coin. I really have learned when to shut the hell up in these type of circumstances, although you can't tell, based on the lengths of my stories and comments :-) EXCELLENT JOB bro.