"I’ve had this happen more times than I care to admit. I hate it when people assume I’ll go along with their agenda by limiting my options. I have my own agenda, thanks, so keep yours to yourself." I guess it comes down to whatever boundaries you establish Susan. No one who knows how particular I am about things, would never even consider sticking their fork in my plate, although they realize, if they ask nicely, I'd willingly share even my most favorite meal. I might even do it with a genuine smile (depending on what the dish was).