OMG Diana, I agree 1000% girlfriend! Especially about the mistake of feeling you have to keep them in your life to prove you really forgive them. I can totally get behind forgiving them from a distance. I had a former neighbor who professed to be a friend. After having 3 fallouts over a period of time, for the same thing - questionable friendhip behavior - I decide to forgive one last time, but this time, at arms length. It works like a charm! :-)