"She’s understandably just a little uptight, but those of us who have been there can surely empathise with her." I certainly can Maria. Not only do I remember those days all too well, but I still cringe and keep my feel on the "passenger's brakes" when I ride in the car with him. Of course, as we all know, little good those brakes do. Like I told Sally - if she thinks she's worried while she's in the car riding with her, wait and see how much she worries when she off somewhere driving on her own. It's so nice of you to support her. She's really gonna need it... :-)