Thanks Sherry, I can appreciate that, because that's only fair. But as I mentioned, I have no intentions on turning this into a finger pointing session, so I won't go there, but I'm sure you'll recognize the story if you come across it. I totally get it; we all live in denial about things in our lives, but some people live there everyday. Clearly the writer is on the right track to enlightenment, so they'll get there :-)