"This can change over the course of one’s life." Marie, I absolutely love you! I had so many things I wanted to comment on this story, but I give! I simply did something I've only did once, just to see if it was true, and that was APPLAUD 50 times. Yep! It worked. Girl, you sound so much like me in the way you look at things, and YOU make ME proud to be the way I am :-)