This is so funny Carol, because I'm always such a walking contradiction, to the point I often confuse myself, right after I'm done laughing. I'm that lady that apologizes when it wasn't my fault. I do it sincerely and with a smile. BUT - Don't you dare make me think you didn't appreciate the gesture, or that you have attitude, when you were the one wrong. If so, we have a problem. I'm also the one so quick to give, please, and be the one left holding the bag, or without, but here again, only when I feel it's appreciated, because it really does make me happy to do it, otherwise I WON'T. I'm weird in other ways too, even though I'm super assertive and will defend my view or my right to my view, to the bitter end. See what I mean? A walking contradiction :-)