"You don’t need your partner, spouse, or significant other to remind you of who you are." Simply splendid story Carmelitta! I devoured every bit of it and found so many noteworthy points. Truly food for the soul, and the funny thing is, I have managed to break the for 4thw wall, and I've begun to be able to claim my freedom, but the way you articulate it enables me to truly see the potential of my power. Girl, I love it! Thank you so much :-)